IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Peggie

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Primm

March 5, 2022

Obituary

Our beloved mother, Peggie Ann Primm, passed away on March 5, 2022 lovingly surrounded by her daughter Donna and son-in-law Rick in their home in Huntersville, NC. She was born on January 20, 1943, in Roseboro, NC to the late William and Ellen Stewart. She was the eldest daughter and the 2nd child out of 12 to join this union.

She had a childhood filled with fond memories as well as great heartaches. Being the oldest daughter, Peggie missed many days of school to work in the fields with her parents to pick tobacco and cotton. She enjoyed running and playing with her older siblings, especially the boys. Mom was a tomboy and tried to mimic what they did; this also includes fighting! She was protective of her siblings and would fight at the drop of a hat. And in spite of missing school to work in the field, she graduated on time from Pleasant Grove High School in 1961 and moved to New York for a better life so she could continue to help her family. When mom moved to New York, she was employed as a live in housekeeper/nanny for a nice family in Queens, NY. Every cent she made was sent to North Carolina to help her family. She would later encourage her parents to move the family to New York because she saw so much hope and promise for her parents.
She met her sweetheart, Arthur Primm in New York. He was certain she would be his wife and due to her saying no multiple times and his persistence, they would finally marry on September 4, 1965. They decided to make Huntington Station, NY their home to raise a family.  From this union, they had two kids, Elvin and Donna. She loved her children with everything she had, but she was also the type of mother who wasn't afraid to say no and discipline her kids. She was a mom, grandmother and great-grandmother who often did without just so they could have what they wanted or needed.
As a couple, Peggie and Arthur joined Faith Missionary Baptist Church in Huntington Station, NY and it was there where she would bless the church with her beautiful voice and become one of the lead singers in the choir, as well as a Deaconess and a Sunday School Teacher. Some of her fondest and most talked about memories were with the Faith Family where they traveled around Long Island to sing at various churches as well as the Bahamas. She was known for stirring up the church and bringing souls to the alter, for singing was her ministry.
Her love of singing started at a young age and she would sing around the house or with her siblings when they gathered at their parents' house in Bay Shore, NY. While singing was just one of her talents, she had many hobbies that displayed talents that have been unmatched. She loved to crochet, sew, work in her flower garden, and make jewelry. She loved to travel to the beach where she would become a lover of collecting seashells to enjoying the quality time in her beach chair.  She enjoyed cooking, entertaining guests, going out to eat at her favorite restaurant, Maria's Grill, where the staff knew what she wanted.
She enjoyed a good game of UNO with the family and when she knew she had UNO, she slammed the card on the table like she was playing dominoes!
When mom retired in 2014 from the Huntington Union Free School District as a Teacher's Aide, she and dad moved to Charlotte, NC. She was so happy to be near her kids and grandchildren. Finding a church home was very important to them. And after visiting many churches, they found peace, love and acceptance at The Connecting Place at Greater Salem. But in December 2018, her world forever changed when her husband of 53 years passed away. She had a great support system within the church community and would become good friends with Mother Eva Corbett. The two would travel together and meet up for breakfast or lunch. Mom was truly grateful for the genuine friendship, sisterhood and love from Mother Eva.
Mom was an amazing woman. She loved hard and laughed harder. She believed in autonomy and dignity and a person's right to choose the life they want. She was kind, generous and compassionate. Even when she spoke in anger, in her own way she would apologize and try to heal what was broken. She loved her entire family, despite their quirks or dysfunction. She worried about them, rooted for them, protected them, helped them, resented them, forgave them, and never stopped loving them, even during her illness when she didn't see her family and her phone stopped ringing. Most people would think it's the end of the world to feel abandoned by their family. But not her. She had very few visitors during her illness and hoped to see her immediate family. But when she realized the brokenness of her family was out of her hands, she gave it to God to repair. She knew at that moment that the visitations would only come when they heard she was transitioning. After that, she said that the visits weren't of God and she preferred not to see anyone else because by this time it was too late.
Mother, you are now free. No more physical, mental or emotional pain. And as someone wrote in their Facebook post, "I hope your soul is at rest…" And in answering this person, her soul is at rest. She forgave those who hurt her the most and died the way she lived; with class, grace, joy, peace, love, dignity and full of happiness.
Peggie was preceded in death by her parents, William and Ellen Stewart, her husband, Arthur Primm, half-brother, James Marlowe, her sister, Mary Bradley and her brothers, Wilbert Stewart and Ray Stewart.
She leaves to cherish her memory; son, Elvin Primm; daughter, Donna Primm-Talley; her brothers William Odell, Larry, Perry, Charles, Thomas and Cornelius (Rose); her sisters, Ellen Olene Batson (Charles) and Carrie Green (Michael) and a host of nieces, nephews and various other family members.
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March
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The Connecting Place at Greater Salem Church

5318 Salem Church Road, Charlotte, NC 28216

12:00 - 1:00 pm

Funeral Service

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March
12

The Connecting Place at Greater Salem Church

5318 Salem Church Road, Charlotte, NC 28216

Starts at 1:00 pm

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